Dining Out with Young Children

Going out to eat can with the entire family can be a wonderful family event.It can also be a challenge for you and other restaurant patrons. A little planning can keep the experience one you'll want to repeat. Here are some tips from parents that have mastered the art of dining out with young children.

• Talk to friends with children in the same age range.If you have a child going through a particularly difficult phase you might consider visiting the restaurant beforehand. The time spent could prevent an unpleasant evening.

• Choose an atmosphere that compliments your children's moods. High activity levels will be right for some but unsettling for others.

• Set a clear expectation for your children and set some boundaries.    

• Call ahead to make sure there's something on the menu your kids will enjoy. A favorite treat can be an incentive for good behavior.  

• Many parents find their children enjoy buffets. Giving children the ability to make decisions and get involved with serving themselves can translate into a happier and quieter experience.  

• Chose a time of day when your children aren't usually tired.An hour or two can make an enormous difference in their ability to behave and enjoy the experience.  

• Make sure to tip your server well if you've had a good experience. Your gesture will be remembered; you may need a friend when you go back the next time.  
  

• Ask for the check early and pay before everyone's finished. In case of a meltdown you can leave quickly without disturbing other patrons.

• Talk to friends with children in the same age range.If you have a child going through a particularly difficult phase you might consider visiting the restaurant beforehand. The time spent could prevent an unpleasant evening.

• Choose an atmosphere that compliments your children's moods. High activity levels will be right for some but unsettling for others.

• Set a clear expectation for your children and set some boundaries.

•  Call ahead to make sure there's something on the menu your kids will enjoy. A favorite treat can be an incentive for good behavior.

•  Many parents find their children enjoy buffets. Giving children the ability to make decisions and get involved with serving themselves can translate into a happier and quieter experience.

• Chose a time of day when your children aren't usually tired.An hour or two can make an enormous difference in their ability to behave and enjoy the experience.

•  Make sure to tip your server well if you've had a good experience. Your gesture will be remembered; you may need a friend when you go back the next time.                                                    

• Ask for the check early and pay before everyone's finished. In case of a meltdown you can leave quickly without disturbing other patrons.